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Vibrator Guide
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For hands-on fun,
you cant beat a vibrator. Vibrators deliver
high-speed stimulation for maximum thrills.
Vibrators also come in all shapes and sizes, and
there are tons of specialty vibrator
models to
fit any need from clitoral and anal vibrators to
vibrators couples can share.
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Our Vibrator
Guide tells you in on Everything You Wanted to Know
about Vibrators... But Didn't Know Who to Ask!
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Different Vibrator Models |
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Anal
Vibrators |
Bullet & Egg Vibrators |
Butterfly Vibrators |
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Clitoral Vibrators |
Cylindrical Vibrators |
G-Spot Vibrators |
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Rabbit Vibrators |
Vibrator Kits |
Vibrators for Men |
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Cock
Ring Vibrators |
Prostate Vibrators |
Special Features |
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Nubs, Bumps or Ridges |
Realistic Vibrators |
Waterproof Vibrators |
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Taking Care of your Vibrator
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Cleaning and Maintaining your
Vibrator |
Recommended cleaning methods
for the most popular vibrator
materials |
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Replacing Batteries |
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Long-term Vibrator Storage |
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Your First
Time... With a New Vibrator |
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The 6 Smart Rules for Using your
Vibrator |
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Before Using your New Vibrator |
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To Lube or not to Lube |
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Taking your New Vibrator for a
Spin |
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Cleaning up Afterward |
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How to Find the
Perfect-Fitting Vibrator
With the thousands of vibrators on the market, it can be
quite a challenge to find which ones best fit your
needs. This vibrator guide will look at Essential
Vibrator Guidelines you should consider before buying a
vibrator. After boning up on those pointers, you can
then explore some of the dozen different Vibrator Models
to see what each has to offer. Then, this guide covers
some of the Special Vibrator Features you should look
for in your new vibrator. By carefully planning your
decision, you’ll be able to better narrow your selection
and find the vibrator that best suits your needs.
Essential Vibrator Guidelines
The most important factor in buying a vibrator is size -
a fact many people tend to gloss over. You can buy an
expensive vibrator with all kinds of special features,
but you’ll end up disappointed if the vibrator of your
dreams turns out too small or too large to use. Most
vibrators are sized 5 to 7 inches long and 1 inch wide -
similar to the average penis.
Vibrators intended exclusively for anal use tend to be a
little shorter and thinner while other vibrators can
measure a whopping 14 inches long and 2.5 inches wide.
Many vibrator novices make the mistake of buying a
vibrator too large for their needs - making it a good
idea to start out with an average-sized vibrator. If you
feel the need for deeper penetration, look for a longer
model with average width so you do not get stuck with
something larger than you can comfortably handle. As a
good yardstick, you could estimate the size of a lover’s
penis and buy a similarly sized vibrator.
There are two standard ways to control the power of your
vibrator. The more basic models come with a rotating
dial in their base so you can vary the vibrator’s speed
from low to high. Other vibrator models have pre-set
pulsations. By pressing a button on the vibrator’s base
or on a separate remote, you can set the speed from low
to high or even select a pre-set pattern that rapidly
turns the vibe on and off.
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Different Vibrator
Models
Once you’ve determined a
comfortable size for your vibrator, it’s time to think
about which model of vibrator suits your needs.
Depending on how you plan to use your vibrator, there’s
likely a special model of vibrators specifically
engineered to suit your needs, whether you’re looking
for a simple back massage, clitoral stimulation from a
Rabbit Vibrator or something to hit your G-Spot. While
there are some vibrators designed to stimulate multiple
erogenous zones, many women prefer to have multiple
vibrators with each vibrator specializing in one area.
Anal Vibrators
As their name implies, anal vibrators are designed
specifically for anal penetration. Anal vibrators are
shorter and thinner than regular vibrators and feature a
flared or extended base for easy removal. Anal vibrators
generally measure 4 to 6 inches long with a width that
can vary from 0.75 to 1.25 inches.
When using an anal vibrator, it’s important to apply
lots of lube to the anus and the vibrator itself for a
smooth penetration. With sufficient lube, the anal
vibrator should slide in and out with only slight
resistance. DO NOT FORCE IT IN. If the resistance is too
much, you can try inserting a finger to slightly loosen
the sphincter ring. If that doesn’t work, stop trying to
use the anal vibrator. Continue the finger exercises
regularly over a two-week period to loosen up the
sphincter before trying out the anal vibrator again.
If this is your first anal vibrator, then look for one
of the smaller-sized anal vibrators or for one
advertised as a beginner’s model. Until you have
adjusted to the experience and know you can handle it,
trying to use a larger anal vibrator is just asking for
trouble. Find an anal vibrator.
Bullet & Egg Vibrators
Many adults love these vibrators because of their all-purpose nature.
These vibrators are great on their own but also are commonly used in a
wide variety of adult toys to enhance stimulation.
Bullet vibrators are generally 2 to 3 inches long and very thin. They
usually run on watch batteries and have a speed control built into their
base. Egg vibrators are roughly the size of a large egg and are usually
wired to a remote control. Most egg vibrators take standard AAA or AA
batteries which are inserted into the remote. Many women use egg
vibrators for vaginal insertion and use bullet vibrators for clitoral
stimulation.
On a precautionary note, the small size of bullet vibrators and their
lack of a cord or wire makes it unwise to insert a bullet vibrator into
your vagina or anus as it might be difficult to retrieve it afterwards.
One should also never use a regular egg vibrator to stimulate your anus
as there is a chance that the cord will break and you will be unable to
retrieve the vibe. However, there are special egg vibrators that come
with a strong cord or wire that are intended for anal use - just pay
attention to the product description.
Bullet and egg vibrators are both common additions to several different
models of sex toys because of their ability to provide extra stimulation
and enhance the user’s experience. Bullet vibrators are often used in
different models of cock rings, while egg vibrators can be found in
masturbation sleeves and love dolls. Find bullet and egg vibrators.
Butterfly Vibrators
Butterfly vibrators are designed solely for clitoral stimulation. These
special vibrators come with straps and are worn in place like a pair of
panties, which gives them a butterfly like shape. Many of these
vibrators have an overall colorful and stylish appearance to make them
more attractive.
Butterfly vibrators are usually covered with dozens of pleasure nubs,
which are simply small and flexible points. When you turn on the
vibrator, these pleasure nubs vibrate very rapidly creating a
mind-blowing feeling of dozens of feathers tickling your clit at once.
Many women love butterfly vibrators for their hands-free stimulation.
This leaves you free to use another vibrator for vaginal or anal
penetration at the same time. Or you could put on your butterfly vibe
before having sex with your partner for constant clitoral stimulation.
Find butterfly vibrators.
Clitoral Vibrators
These are arguably the best vibrators on the market because they provide
such intense clitoral stimulation they’re effective on even women who
otherwise have difficulty having an orgasm.
There are two major kinds of clitoral vibrators - rabbits or dolphins
and beavers. The names come from how these vibrators stimulate the
clitoris. Rabbit vibes feature two small prongs - the rabbit’s ears -
that directly tickle the clit. Beaver or dolphin vibrators rely on one
larger nub, either the beaver’s tail or the dolphin’s nose, for clitoral
stimulation. Many women prefer the rabbit vibrator claiming that it has
a lighter, more teasing and feather-like feel to it than the beaver or
dolphin. The single, larger nub of the beaver and dolphin vibrators
allows for more intense and heavy-handed stimulation.
Clitoral vibrators tend to be the luxury model on the adult toy market.
They rank among the more expensive vibrators, but almost all clitoral
vibrators include several special features. Unlike butterfly vibrators,
the rabbit or beaver probe is attached to a long shaft for dual vaginal
penetration and clitoral stimulation. Many models also feature two
separate speed controls, one for the vibrating shaft and another for the
clitoral stimulator. Like G-Spot vibrators, these shafts are liberally
covered in raised veins and pleasure nubs for added satisfaction. Some
of the higher-end models have rotating tips, a piston action that mimics
actual thrusting, or the ability to connect to your computer for
long-distance relationships. Shop for clitoral vibrators.
Cylindrical Vibrators
These are your basic nuts-and-bolts vibrator. Cylindrical vibrators lack
extra features that come with higher-end vibrators, but they make up for
that with by being highly dependable and relatively inexpensive.
Cylindrical vibrators tend to less than 1 inch wide, making them
relatively thin. Most of these vibrators feature a rounded, smooth
shaft. One end tapers down to a smooth point, while the other end houses
the controls and battery compartment.
With their rounded tip and smooth surface, cylindrical vibrators are
useful for either clitoral stimulation or vaginal penetration. It is not
recommended to use cylindrical vibrators for anal penetration as they
lack the flared base that ensures easy retrieval. Be sure to use a
toy-safe lubricant with cylindrical vibrators for an easier and more
satisfying experience. Find cylindrical vibrators.
G-Spot Vibrators
You can easily tell if a vibrator is designed to hit your G-Spot by
looking at their shape. G-Spot vibrators feature a distinctive curve
right at the tip so the head of the vibrator can more easily hit your
G-Spot every time. The tip of the G-Spot vibe is also fairly large, more
like the head of an actual penis than the rounded point on a cylindrical
vibrator. On the whole, G-Spot vibrators tend to be wider than many
cylindrical vibrators - measuring around 1 to 1.5 inches wide and 5 to 7
inches long.
G-spot vibrators also tend to feature additional features to enhance
stimulation. These can be something as simple as raised ridges along the
length of the shaft to make penetration more pleasurable or a shaft with
a series of bulbous projections so you can feel it gliding in and out.
G-Spot vibrators tend to be one of the most popular models on the
market, coming in narrowly behind clitoral and rabbit vibrators. Many
women use G-Spot vibrators while stimulating their clitoris for truly
powerful orgasms. Shop for G-Spot vibrators.
Rabbit Vibrators
Rabbit vibrators are the most popular vibrator model on the market,
thanks to publicity from the popular HBO series Sex in the City, the
Oxygen Network’s Talk Sex with Sue Johanson show, and simple word of
mouth. Even with all that hype, many women find that their rabbit
vibrators are even better than promised.
Rabbit vibrators are named after the two-pronged "bunny ears" that
vibrate at high speeds to stimulate the clitoris. Many women find that
the rabbit ears have a light teasing feel - almost like a high-speed
feather or tongue. Rabbit vibrators are attached to a long shaft for
dual vaginal penetration and clitoral stimulation. Many models also
feature two separate speed controls - one for the vibrating shaft and
another for the clitoral stimulator. Like G-Spot vibrators, these shafts
are liberally covered in raised veins and pleasure nubs for added
satisfaction. Some of the higher-end models have rotating tips, a piston
action that mimics actual thrusting, or the ability to connect to your
computer for long-distance relationships. Browse our extensive
collection of rabbit vibrators.
Vibrator Kits
Vibrator Kits come with one basic cylindrical vibrator and a variety of
sleeves made from different materials. These sleeves are simply slipped
over the vibrator so you can customize it for several different purposes
- such as G-Spot or clitoral stimulation. Many of these sleeves are
completely covered with flexible pleasure nubs making these vibrators
ideal for clitoral stimulation as well as an arousing massage. Shop for
vibrator kits.
Vibrators for Men
Although vibrators are often seen as a product for women, men can enjoy
them every bit as much as women. A vibrating massager can be highly
relaxing on tense muscles. And you might be pleasantly surprise at a
man’s reaction to using a clitoral vibrator on his balls. But there are
some vibrators that cater exclusively for men. Check out our anal
vibrators and vibrating butt plugs.
Cock Ring Vibrators
These are usually small rings made of a stretchy material like cyberskin
or silicone with a bullet or egg vibrator. The ring fits snugly over the
base of the penis - restricting blood flow so a man can stay harder for
a longer amount of time. Meanwhile, the vibrator attached to the cock
ring can be positioned for several different uses. The man can point it
downward to stimulate his balls or he could place it to hit a woman’s
clit during sex. Some cock ring vibrators have dual stimulators - one
for the clit and one for a woman’s ass. The potential afforded by the
positioning of the vibe combined with the endurance-enhancement of the
cock ring makes these items highly popular. Shop for vibrating cock
rings.
Prostate Vibrators
These are a cross between anal and G-Spot vibrators. Prostate vibrators
often have a bigger tip for better stimulation with a long, curved shaft
to easily reach the prostate. While some men simply aren’t comfortable
with the concept of prostate stimulation, prostate stimulation coupled
with just stroking the penis causes an extremely powerful and more
satisfying orgasm.
When using a prostate vibrator, you should follow the same precautions
as with using an anal vibrator. Be sure to use plenty of lube and be
careful during insertion. With sufficient lube, the anal vibrator should
slide in and out with only slight resistance. DO NOT FORCE IT IN. If the
resistance is too much, you can try inserting a finger to slightly
loosen the sphincter ring. Look for prostate vibrators.
Special Features to Improve your
Vibrator Experience
Now that you know what you want your ideal vibrator to be made out of,
it’s time to actually start shopping. While browsing through our
extensive collection of vibrators, you’ll find several that advertise
special features - like Pleasure Nubs, a Realistic Look or Waterproof
Controls. This section explains just what these little extras are and
what they do.
Pleasure Nubs, Bumps or Ridges
Many higher-end vibrators aim to increase stimulation as much as
possible by creating ridges, bumps and pleasure nubs along the vibrator.
Ridges are lines that run along the vibrator’s shaft and stick out just
a little bit to provide additional stimulation during penetration. On
many vibrators, particularly realistic vibrators, these ridges are made
to look like veins.
Bumps tend to small, raised circles along the vibrator’s shaft that
function similar to ridges. Larger-sized bumps are also found around the
vibrator’s base for clitoral stimulation. Bumps have little to no
flexibility. Pleasure nubs are small and thin but highly flexible
hair-like pieces that stick out along the shaft and near the base for
clitoral and vaginal stimulation.
Realistic Vibrators
Rather than a nondescript cylinder or an oddly shaped one like most
G-Spot vibrators, realistic vibrators faithfully replicate a penis -
from the head down to the balls. These are frequently molded from
real-life models, including several top adult stars. Realistic vibrators
are often made from cyberskin - a special material that simulates the
feel and consistency of the real thing. They come in a wide variety of
sizes from average to the largest ones that top out around 12 inches
long and 2 inches in girth. Some of the better models also include
raised veins to provide increased stimulation during penetration. See
what realistic vibrators have to offer.
Waterproof Vibrators
Whether you’re alone or with a partner, waterproof vibrators are perfect
for turning bath time into playtime. Many women love being able to
combine the stimulation of their vibrator with the sensuous feel of
water or a powerful shower massage for a knee-shaking orgasm. A special
plastic ring seals the battery compartment off from the water allowing
you to use these models in the shower or the pool with ease. Take a dip
in the pool with these waterproof vibrators.
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Deciding on a Material
for your Vibrator
Vibrators are made from a several different materials,
which can affect how you use your vibrator, its price
and even how you maintain it. Before buying a vibrator,
you should research the benefits and drawbacks of the
different materials so you can find the vibrator best
suited to your needs. There are five main types of
material used to make vibrators: Plastic, Latex, Jelly,
Cyberskin, and Silicone.
Plastic Vibrators
Plastic is a popular choice for vibrators, largely
because of its extremely low price. Vibrators made from
plastic tend to be very basic, no-frills models. Plastic
vibrators are very smooth and sleek. Plastic vibrators
tend to be excellent for penetration - providing a firm
and fulfilling experience. But their lack of flexibility
makes them less effective when it comes to clitoral
stimulation.
Latex Vibrators
This material is one step up from plastic. While still
relatively cheap, latex gives the vibrator user many
more options. Latex vibrators are firm enough for deep
penetration, but these vibrators have more give and a
little more flexibility than their plastic counterparts.
Because latex vibrators have much more friction than
plastic ones, you should always use a lube with them.
Jelly Vibrators
Jelly vibrators provide an excellent balance between
usability and cost, making this the material of choice
for many mid-range and luxury vibrators. Jelly is very
easy to mold, color and shape - properties which
manufacturers take advantage of whenever possible. This
results in jelly vibrators numbering among the most
colorful and exotic-looking models of vibrators as well
as giving designers a chance to include many special
features. Jelly is a very pliable material that has on
overall smooth, soft and even supple feel to it. Despite
their name, jelly vibrators have a consistency similar
to a hard-boiled egg and are very effective at
penetration. Browse our large collection of jelly
vibrators.
Cyberskin Vibrators
Cyberskin vibrators are prized for their highly
realistic feel and appearance. This special material
comes very close to replicating the feel and appearance
of human skin, especially after you hold these vibrators
close to your body to warm them up. Because of its
realistic look and feel, cyberskin is commonly used in
high-end adult toys and realistic vibrators. It combines
the soft give of jelly vibrators with the firmness of
latex vibrators. Cyberskin vibrators do require some
specialized cleaning.
Silicone Vibrators
Silicone is a high quality material that is rapidly
revolutionizing the vibrator industry. Silicone is
prized for its durability as well as its superior
hygienic properties. Silicone can put up with a great
deal of stress and hard-use while retaining its original
shape and qualities. Silicone vibrators tend to be more
expensive because these models are meant to last for
years of intense usage. For the most part, silicone
vibrators are soft and firm and feel very comfortable
whether used for penetration or clitoral stimulation.
Silicone vibrators are also easy to clean.
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Your First Time... With a
New Vibrator
So you've got your new vibrator, but you're not quite
sure what to do with it. Don't worry, because this
walk-through has the answers you need. Start off by
reviewing the Smart Rules for Vibrator Usage. Then,
there are a few steps you need to take Before Using your
Vibrator, and you should also decide whether or not you
need to Use a Lube with your Vibrator. After that, there
are tips on Using Your Vibrator for the First Time and
also on Cleaning up Afterwards.
The 6 Smart Rules for Using your Vibrator
1. Never insert any vibrator to the point that it cannot
be easily controlled and removed.
2. Always clean your vibrator after use.
3. To make clean-up easier, you could place a condom
over your vibrators before use.
4. Use only compatible water-based lubricants with
condoms and latex toys.
5. If pain or discomfort occurs while using your
vibrator, stop immediately.
6. Do not use your vibrator on broken or irritated skin.
Before Using your New Vibrator
When you first get your vibrator, carefully take it out
of the box. Check over the box or any instructions to
see if your vibrator has any safety tips or special
instructions. After this, you need to gently wash your
vibrator with warm water and mild soap – taking care not
to get the battery compartment or controls wet. Dry your
vibrator off with a clean towel and you’re getting
closer.
To Lube or not to Lube
If you’re not sure, lubes basically serve as a fill-in
for the natural lubricant produced by a woman’s vagina.
There are all several different varieties of lubes
geared for special purposes, including vibrator use.
If you intend to use an anal vibrator, then lube is an
absolute necessity. Only lube will provide a smooth,
safe penetration for your vibrator while allowing for
easy removal. It’s also a good idea to use lube with any
vibrator that provides clitoral stimulation. Several
lubes have unique properties like heating up when
friction is applied to them that can enhance stimulation
and take your vibrator thrills even further. Some women
can use their vibrator safely and comfortably for
vaginal penetration without using lube. Most women,
however, have a difficulty time being aroused by a
simple piece of plastic, and they rely on lube to help
get things started. Since this is your first time with a
vibrator, it’s better to play it safe and cautious by
using lube your first few times and then making a
decision.
Taking your New Vibrator for a Spin
Regardless of which vibrator out of the hundreds of
models catches your imagination, sexual therapists agree
that there’s one basic rule for using a vibrator – if it
feels good, then keep doing it! This is partly because
vibrators, more than any other adult product, actively
encourage you to experiment with different positions and
speeds to find the right combination that hits your
sexual buttons.
First, get in a position you find comfortable, such as
on your back or on your stomach. Turn the vibrator on
low and start using to gently touch your erogenous zones
such as your nipples, inner thighs and around your
vagina. After getting used to the feel of the vibrator,
apply a little lube to the vibrator and your vagina and
clitoris and begin to gently rub the vibrator up and
down your vagina. Start with a light, almost teasing
approach and gradually build up pressure until you reach
the point you’re most comfortable at. Remember to relax
and enjoy yourself!
Cleaning up Afterward
Every time you use your vibrator you should always clean
it thoroughly before using it again. Most vibrators can
be cleaned with a simple soap and water, but some models
and material require special care. Refer to the Cleaning
your Vibrator for more detailed information.
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Tips to
Maximize your
Vibrator Fun
Beginner or experienced user, it never hurts to check
out vibrator pointers for inspiration or new ideas to
help make your vibrator experience even sweeter.
Vibrator 101 – The Introduction
All right, so you’ve used your vibrator a few times,
enjoyed it and now you found yourself looking for ideas
about new things to try.
- Don’t just focus on your vagina or clitoris but try
using the vibrator all over your body – you might find
an erogenous zone you never knew about before!
- Many partners enjoy either watching or using a
vibrator with their lover. If your partner is more
reluctant to jump in and help, try giving them a sensual
massage with the vibrator first to show what it does.
Make sure that your partner knows the vibrator is not
meant to replace him or her but just to make a great
thing even better.
- The more often you use your vibrator, the easier
you’ll find it to orgasm during sex with your partner.
As you use your vibrator, you’ll grow more accustomed to
the triggers it takes to send you over the edge and
you’ll be able to communicate what works and what
doesn’t to your partner.
- Learn how to enhance stimulation by varying the speed
of your vibrator. Many people just set the dial to high
and leave it there. Don’t fall into that trap!
- Don’t just lie on your bed. Try moving around and see
if there’s another position that really makes your
vibrator ring your bell!
- Remember: Practice Makes Perfect!
Vibrator 202 – The Advanced Course
If you're getting bored with the basics, then these more
advanced tips will help put new life in your vibrator!
- If you have a few old vibrators lying around, you can
give them new life by wrapping a vibrating cock ring
around the vibrator.
- The secret to having multiple orgasms with your
vibrator is to ease the pressure against your clitoris
when you're near an orgasm. Keep gently moving the
vibrator but avoid direct contact with your clitoris
until you find yourself on the verge of another orgasm.
- Time your hip movements with your breathing for
increased pleasure. After getting the hang of this while
using your vibrator, starting contracting and releasing
your pelvic muscles at the same time.
- Try a position you've never tried before or, better
yet, use your vibrator somewhere brand new and daring!
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Taking Care of
your Vibrator
With just a little bit of Cleaning, Maintenance, and
Proper Care, your favorite vibrators will be around for
years to come.
Cleaning and Maintaining your Vibrator
Most vibrators are incredibly easy to clean. Just wet a
clean towel in warm soapy water and thoroughly wipe the
vibrator off – taking care not to get the control area
or battery compartment wet. If you use your vibrator
anally, you must clean it very thoroughly using
antibacterial soap or rubbing alcohol if possible as
soon as possible after each use. There are also special
cleaners formulated to safely work with adult toys that
you can use. Be sure to clean your vibrator soon after
using it. Never put off cleaning your vibrator until the
next day.
After cleaning, dry the vibrator with a soft, clean
cloth. If your vibrator is made from cyberskin, you
should apply the special cyberskin powder to maintain
the vibrator’s unique feeling. After thoroughly drying
your vibrator, you should wrap it in a dry cloth and
store your vibrator in a cool, dry place.
These are the recommended cleaning methods for the
most popular vibrator materials:
Plastic – soap and water, rubbing alcohol, sex toy
cleaner
Latex – mild soap and water, sex toy cleaner
Jelly – mild soap and water, sex toy cleaner
Cyberskin – mild soap and water, Cyberskin cleaner, sex
toy cleaner, talcum powder
Silicon – soap and water, sex toy cleaner
Replacing Batteries
When you wear out your batteries, replacing them is as
simple as a trip to your nearest drug store. Most
vibrators take AA or AAA batteries, but some models take
common watch batteries. Be sure to take note what
battery you need when you remove them from the vibrator.
The batteries on most models can be removed by
unscrewing the base of the vibrator or removing the
panel on the remote control.
Long-term Vibrator Storage
Batteries contain highly corrosive chemicals, and it’s
not recommended that you leave them inside your vibrator
for extended periods of time. If you don’t plan to use
your vibrator for longer than a week, you should remove
the batteries, wrap your vibrator in a dry towel and
store it in a cool, dry place.
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