- Women achieve an orgasm in one of
two ways. They either have an orgasm from clitoral stimulation, or
by stimulating their G Spot.
- Many women's bodies have learned to
take turns and cum from clitoral stimulation sometimes, and cum from
G Spot stimulation other times, so sometimes they will reach a
clitoral orgasm during sex or when masturbating, and other times
achieve a G Spot orgasm.
- But the ones that have learned to
achieve a
Clitoral AND G Spot orgasm at the SAME TIME have discovered
the secret to having an orgasm so explosive and intense that it can
only be described as
the Ultimate Orgasm!
So, what’s the big secret to this
incredible orgasm?
Not much really. In fact, it’s a very simple technique to master, and
we're going to teach you how to do it!
The first thing you need to understand is
the difference between a clitoral orgasm and a G Spot orgasm. For those
of you that may not have experienced one or the other, a clitoral orgasm
is usually easier for a woman to achieve, and most women can reach a
clitoral orgasm faster than a G Spot orgasm since the clit is easier to
stimulate.
Of the two, the G Spot orgasm has been described as the more ‘intense’
or ‘deeper’ orgasm since it starts inside the pussy and expands
outwards.
It’s best to start solo and masturbate so you can fine-tune your skills
before teaching your partner how to get you off this way. Although you
can bring yourself to the Ultimate Orgasm with just your fingers, it’s
also easier if you own a
G Spot Vibrator. Although a lot of Rabbit Vibrators
are curved to reach a woman's G Spot, you won't want the 'Rabbit Ears'
stimulating your clit, so you need a non-Rabbit style G Spot vibrator
like the one in the picture at the right. These are a lot more
reasonably priced than a G Spot Rabbit Vibrator. Even without turning it
on, it can help you to reach your G Spot easier with one hand while your
rubbing your clit with the other. Even if you don’t use a G Spot
vibrator to achieve the Ultimate Orgasm, if you own both a G Spot
vibrator and a straight
vibrator,
once you’ve mastered the technique, you can use either or both of them
to increase the stimulation on your clit and your G Spot for a
thunderous orgasm that may cause you to lose all control!
If you’ve only experienced a clitoral or a G Spot orgasm in the past,
and not both, you may need to spend some time masturbating and learning
how to bring yourself to a clitoral orgasm and a G Spot orgasm
separately so that your body can distinguish between the two. If you
have trouble experiencing a G Spot orgasm, you're not alone. Many women
have never experienced a G Spot orgasm, so you might want to get the DVD
Unlocking the Secrets of the G-Spot: The Ultimate O or
Nina Hartley's Guide To G-Spot Sex. Both of these videos
offer excellent advice, and since they're videos, you'll have the
visuals to help you learn how to have a G Spot orgasm.
OK, enough about what the two
different orgasms are. Let’s get started on learning how to achieve them
simultaneously!
Start by getting undressed and lying on your back with your legs spread
comfortably. Try to relax and start stroking your clit gently at first.
As you begin to feel yourself becoming more aroused, start rubbing
harder and faster until you feel yourself building up to a clitoral
orgasm. Keep going as long as you can before you cum, but when you’re at
the edge and you reach the point that you’re ready to cum, stop rubbing
your clit and insert either your fingers or the G Spot vibrator into
your pussy and start massaging your G Spot. Continue to stimulate only
your G Spot until your level of arousal reaches the point you can feel
an orgasm starting to build. Now it’s time to stimulate your clit again,
but keep rubbing your G Spot with your other hand or the vibrator. Since
you should be at the point a G Spot orgasm is immanent, start rubbing
your clit and your G Spot full force! By stimulating both your clit and
your G Spot simultaneously, you should begin to feel yourself starting
to have an explosive, pulsating climax.
If it doesn’t happen the first time, and the orgasm you experience
doesn’t feel any different than any other orgasm you’ve had, don’t
worry. Your body is use to doing things a certain way, including having
an orgasm, and many women have to keep practicing this technique to
‘fine tune’ their body to learn how to have a clitoral and G Spot orgasm
simultaneously. For some women this takes a few hours, and for others it
might take a few days to master the technique, so keep practicing and
don’t give up!
If you’ve practiced and practiced and can’t seem to reach a simultaneous
clitoral and G Spot orgasm, you can try varying the length of time you
spend stimulating your clit, your G Spot, and both. Another thing to try
is to vary the amount of pressure and speed on your clit or your G Spot.
If you’re reaching a clitoral orgasm and not a G Spot orgasm, reduce the
amount of stimulation on your clit. If you’re achieving a G Spot orgasm
but not a clitoral orgasm, decrease the amount of simulation you’re
applying to your G Spot. If your body just can't get the hang of
experiencing multiple orgasms, try watching the DVD
Nina Hartley’s Guide To Multiple Orgasms.
If masturbating is something you don't do on a regular basis, this could
be the problem too. Try the DVDs
Nina Hartley’s Guide To Masturbation, or
A Lover's Guide To Self-Pleasuring.
Like anything else you try, practice makes perfect, and even if you
achieved the Ultimate Orgasm the first time you tried it, you’ll
probably want to repeat it solo a few times to get your technique
perfected.
 Teaching
your partner the technique.
OK, you’ve perfected your timing and you can bring yourself to the
Ultimate Orgasm any time you want. Now it’s time to teach your partner
how to do it.
First off, you and your partner have to be comfortable communicating
during sex. If you’re not, tell him, or her in advance that you’ve
learned a new technique and you want to teach it to them.
Start by lying on your back with your hips on the edge of the bed or a
table with a wedge support under your lower back. This will
give you the right angle for a mans cock to hit your G Spot. If you
don’t have a sex wedge, you can try a firm pillow or two, but you will
eventually want to invest in a product like the
Liberator Ramp & Wedge Combo
to make sure you always get the necessary stimulation on your G Spot
from your partner. Don’t worry, you’ll find plenty of other positions to
use it in, so it’s not like you’ll be buying it just for this one
position.
Once your hips are supported, have your partner stand or kneel between
your legs, depending on how high your bed is off the floor. The object
is for him to penetrate you at an upward angle slightly more than 90
degrees to make sure he will hit your G Spot. Start off by teasing your
clit, just like you did when you practiced this by yourself, then have
him penetrate you slowly. Stop stimulating your clit as he starts
thrusting until you feel yourself getting ready to cum, then ask him to
stop and remain very still while you start rubbing your clit gently
again. Most men will be more than happy to wait as they watch you softly
tease your clit with your fingers. When you feel yourself nearing a
clitoral orgasm, stop rubbing your clit and have your partner begin
thrusting again. Continue rotating back and forth between your partner
thrusting against your G Spot and rubbing your clit until just before
you feel yourself reach the point that you can’t stop yourself from
cumming any more. Now, have your partner start fucking you hard and fast
as you rub your clit as fast as you need to in order to match your
clitoral orgasm with your G Spot orgasm. If you’ve practiced enough to
control them both, you should be able to climax simultaneously with one
of the most powerful orgasms you’ve ever had!
Although enjoying the Ultimate Orgasm is something few woman have had
the pleasure of experiencing, it can still be tweaked for even more
intense, mind blowing pleasure, both when you’re masturbating, and with
a partner!
When you’re masturbating, try using both a G Spot vibrator to stimulate
your G Spot and another vibrator to stimulate your clit. If you love the
sensations a vibrator gives you, this should cause you to cum harder
than you ever thought possible. To increase the pleasure with your
partner, use a vibrator instead of your fingers when stimulating your
clitoris.
Most women like the doggie style position so much because of the angle
of penetration, and they love the feeling of their bare breasts hanging
down and bouncing around while they’re being fucked from behind. If you
cum harder in the doggie style position, just use the same techniques in
this position.
Add stimulation to other erogenous zones.
Are you cumming hard, but not seeing stars yet? Or maybe you are seeing
stars, but just can’t get enough! There’s nothing wrong with that, and
the best way to take your orgasm even farther over the edge is to
stimulate your other erogenous zones.
Try wearing on a pair of vibrating nipple clamps to keep your nipples
stimulated! Many women can have what we call a nipplegasm, which is an
orgasm brought on from nothing more than having their nipples stimulated
long enough. If this is you, then adding a pair of vibrating nipple
clamps to your sex session should take you over the edge when you cum!
If you don't own a set of vibrating nipple clamps, you can find
different
Nipple Clamps and other
Nipple Toys here.
 Still
want more? If you’re an ass aficionado, and anal sex sends you over the
edge, you can use a vibrating butt plug while you’re partner is fucking
your pussy, or have your partner fuck you in the ass and use a G Spot
vibrator to stimulate your G Spot! If you're still new to anal
stimulation, you can find a variety of
Butt Plugs and other
Anal Sex Toys for Her here. We also recommend the DVDs
Nina Hartley's Guide to Anal Sex,
Better Sex Guide To Anal Pleasure, and
Nina Hartley’s Guide To Masturbation to help you get started
in the right direction.
Of course, you can combine the vibrating nipple clamps, a vibrating butt
plug, a G Spot vibrator, and a regular vibrator in any combination you
want to send you so far over the edge when you cum you may feel like
you’re going to pass out!
Tips for the men reading this: If you
know your partner well enough to read her body language, which all men
should, why not use your fingers or a vibrator to introduce your partner
to the most intensive orgasm she's ever had. You can use the techniques
described above while you're fucking her, or get her off by masturbating
her! Just watch her body language, or have her tell you when she's ready
to cum each time you switch from stimulating her clit to her G Spot and
back. You'll get the pleasure of getting her off harder than ever
before, and she'll be in heaven!
After all, every woman deserves to have the most intense, explosive and
euphoric Ultimate Orgasm!
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