The Ultimate Orgasm

• Women achieve an orgasm in one of two ways. They either have an orgasm from clitoral stimulation, or by stimulating their G Spot.
• Many women's bodies have learned to take turns and cum from clitoral stimulation sometimes, and cum from G Spot stimulation other times, so sometimes they will reach a clitoral orgasm during sex or when masturbating, and other times achieve a G Spot orgasm.
• But the ones that have learned to achieve a Clitoral AND G Spot orgasm at the SAME TIME have discovered the secret to having an orgasm so explosive and intense that it can only be described as the Ultimate Orgasm!

So, what’s the big secret to this incredible orgasm?
Not much really. In fact, it’s a very simple technique to master, and we're going to teach you how to do it!

The first thing you need to understand is the difference between a clitoral orgasm and a G Spot orgasm. For those of you that may not have experienced one or the other, a clitoral orgasm is usually easier for a woman to achieve, and most women can reach a clitoral orgasm faster than a G Spot orgasm since the clit is easier to stimulate.
Of the two, the G Spot orgasm has been described as the more ‘intense’ or ‘deeper’ orgasm since it starts inside the pussy and expands outwards.

It’s best to start solo and masturbate so you can fine-tune your skills before teaching your partner how to get you off this way. Although you can bring yourself to the Ultimate Orgasm with just your fingers, it’s easier if you own a G Spot Vibrator (Available at: Passions Unchained Sex Toys  Adam & Eve Sex Toys  Hustler Hollywood  Angels Toy Store ). Although a lot of Rabbit Vibrators are curved to reach a woman's G Spot, you won't want the 'Rabbit Ears' stimulating your clit, so you need a non-Rabbit style G Spot vibrator like the one in the picture at the right. These are a lot more reasonably priced than a G Spot Rabbit Vibrator. Even without turning it on, it can help you to reach your G Spot easier with one hand while your rubbing your clit with the other. Even if you don’t use a G Spot vibrator to achieve the Ultimate Orgasm, if you own both a G Spot vibrator and a straight vibrator, once you’ve mastered the technique, you can use either or both of them to increase the stimulation on your clit and your G Spot for a thunderous orgasm that may cause you to lose all control!

If you’ve only experienced a clitoral or a G Spot orgasm in the past, and not both, you may need to spend some time masturbating and learning how to bring yourself to a clitoral orgasm and a G Spot orgasm separately so that your body can distinguish between the two. If you have trouble experiencing a G Spot orgasm, you're not alone. Many women have never experienced a G Spot orgasm, so you might want to get the DVD Unlocking the Secrets of the G-Spot: The Ultimate O or  Nina Hartley's Guide To G-Spot Sex. Both of these videos offer excellent advice, and since they're videos, you'll have the visuals to help you learn how to have a G Spot orgasm.

OK, enough about what the two different orgasms are. Let’s get started on learning how to achieve them simultaneously!
Start by getting undressed and lying on your back with your legs spread comfortably. Try to relax and start stroking your clit gently at first. As you begin to feel yourself becoming more aroused, start rubbing harder and faster until you feel yourself building up to a clitoral orgasm. Keep going as long as you can before you cum, but when you’re at the edge and you reach the point that you’re ready to cum, stop rubbing your clit and insert either your fingers or the G Spot vibrator into your pussy and start massaging your G Spot. Continue to stimulate only your G Spot until your level of arousal reaches the point you can feel an orgasm starting to build. Now it’s time to stimulate your clit again, but keep rubbing your G Spot with your other hand or the vibrator. Since you should be at the point a G Spot orgasm is immanent, start rubbing your clit and your G Spot full force! By stimulating both your clit and your G Spot simultaneously, you should begin to feel yourself starting to have an explosive, pulsating climax.

If it doesn’t happen the first time, and the orgasm you experience doesn’t feel any different than any other orgasm you’ve had, don’t worry. Your body is use to doing things a certain way, including having an orgasm, and many women have to keep practicing this technique to ‘fine tune’ their body to learn how to have a clitoral and G Spot orgasm simultaneously. For some women this takes a few hours, and for others it might take a few days to master the technique, so keep practicing and don’t give up!

If you’ve practiced and practiced and can’t seem to reach a simultaneous clitoral and G Spot orgasm, you can try varying the length of time you spend stimulating your clit, your G Spot, and both. Another thing to try is to vary the amount of pressure and speed on your clit or your G Spot. If you’re reaching a clitoral orgasm and not a G Spot orgasm, reduce the amount of stimulation on your clit. If you’re achieving a G Spot orgasm but not a clitoral orgasm, decrease the amount of simulation you’re applying to your G Spot. If your body just can't get the hang of experiencing multiple orgasms, try watching the DVD Nina Hartley’s Guide To Multiple Orgasms. (Available at: Passions Unchained Sex Toys  Adam & Eve Sex Toys  Hustler Hollywood  Angels Toy Store )

If masturbating is something you don't do on a regular basis, this could be the problem too. Try the DVDs Nina Hartley’s Guide To Masturbation,  or A Lover's Guide To Self-Pleasuring.

Like anything else you try, practice makes perfect, and even if you achieved the Ultimate Orgasm the first time you tried it, you’ll probably want to repeat it solo a few times to get your technique perfected.

Teaching your partner the technique.
OK, you’ve perfected your timing and you can bring yourself to the Ultimate Orgasm any time you want. Now it’s time to teach your partner how to do it.

First off, you and your partner have to be comfortable communicating during sex. If you’re not, tell him, or her in advance that you’ve learned a new technique and you want to teach it to them.

Start by lying on your back with your hips on the edge of the bed or a table with a wedge support under your lower back. This will give you the right angle for a mans cock to hit your G Spot. If you don’t have a sex wedge, you can try a firm pillow or two, but you will eventually want to invest in a product like the Liberator Ramp & Wedge Combo to make sure you always get the necessary stimulation on your G Spot from your partner (Available at: Passions Unchained Sex Toys  Adam & Eve Sex Toys  Hustler Hollywood  Angels Toy Store ). Don’t worry, you’ll find plenty of other positions to use it in, so it’s not like you’ll be buying it just for this one position.

Once your hips are supported, have your partner stand or kneel between your legs, depending on how high your bed is off the floor. The object is for him to penetrate you at an upward angle slightly more than 90 degrees to make sure he will hit your G Spot. Start off by teasing your clit, just like you did when you practiced this by yourself, then have him penetrate you slowly. Stop stimulating your clit as he starts thrusting until you feel yourself getting ready to cum, then ask him to stop and remain very still while you start rubbing your clit gently again. Most men will be more than happy to wait as they watch you softly tease your clit with your fingers. When you feel yourself nearing a clitoral orgasm, stop rubbing your clit and have your partner begin thrusting again. Continue rotating back and forth between your partner thrusting against your G Spot and rubbing your clit until just before you feel yourself reach the point that you can’t stop yourself from cumming any more. Now, have your partner start fucking you hard and fast as you rub your clit as fast as you need to in order to match your clitoral orgasm with your G Spot orgasm. If you’ve practiced enough to control them both, you should be able to climax simultaneously with one of the most powerful orgasms you’ve ever had!

Although enjoying the Ultimate Orgasm is something few woman have had the pleasure of experiencing, it can still be tweaked for even more intense, mind blowing pleasure, both when you’re masturbating, and with a partner!
When you’re masturbating, try using both a G Spot vibrator to stimulate your G Spot and another vibrator to stimulate your clit. If you love the sensations a vibrator gives you, this should cause you to cum harder than you ever thought possible. To increase the pleasure with your partner, use a vibrator instead of your fingers when stimulating your clitoris.

Most women like the doggie style position so much because of the angle of penetration, and they love the feeling of their bare breasts hanging down and bouncing around while they’re being fucked from behind. If you cum harder in the doggie style position, just use the same techniques in this position.

Add stimulation to other erogenous zones.
Are you cumming hard, but not seeing stars yet? Or maybe you are seeing stars, but just can’t get enough! There’s nothing wrong with that, and the best way to take your orgasm even farther over the edge is to stimulate your other erogenous zones.

Try wearing on a pair of vibrating nipple clamps to keep your nipples stimulated! Many women can have what we call a nipplegasm, which is an orgasm brought on from nothing more than having their nipples stimulated long enough. If this is you, then adding a pair of vibrating nipple clamps to your sex session should take you over the edge when you cum! If you don't own a set of vibrating nipple clamps, you can find different Nipple Clamps and other Nipple Toys here.

Still want more? If you’re an ass aficionado, and anal sex sends you over the edge, you can use a vibrating butt plug while you’re partner is fucking your pussy, or have your partner fuck you in the ass and use a G Spot vibrator to stimulate your G Spot! If you're still new to anal stimulation, you can find a variety of Butt Plugs and other Anal Sex Toys for Her here. We also recommend the DVDs Nina Hartley's Guide to Anal Sex, Better Sex Guide To Anal Pleasure, and Nina Hartley’s Guide To Masturbation to help you get started in the right direction (Available at: Passions Unchained Sex Toys  Adam & Eve Sex Toys  Hustler Hollywood  Angels Toy Store ).

Of course, you can combine the vibrating nipple clamps, a vibrating butt plug, a G Spot vibrator, and a regular vibrator in any combination you want to send you so far over the edge when you cum you may feel like you’re going to pass out!

Tips for the men reading this: If you know your partner well enough to read her body language, which all men should, why not use your fingers or a vibrator to introduce your partner to the most intensive orgasm she's ever had. You can use the techniques described above while you're fucking her, or get her off by masturbating her! Just watch her body language, or have her tell you when she's ready to cum each time you switch from stimulating her clit to her G Spot and back. You'll get the pleasure of getting her off harder than ever before, and she'll be in heaven!

After all, every woman deserves to have the most intense, explosive and euphoric Ultimate Orgasm!

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