New Things To Try

OK, you've tried Every Sex Position there is, and You've Tried the Different Variations on Sex Positions
only to discover you have an Insatiable Appetite for Sex, and now YOU WANT EVEN MORE!

No Problem! We still have some New Things You Can Try to Spice Up Your Sex Life Even More!

If your relationship is going fine, and you just want to spice things up a little, here are some suggestions.

If your relationship is going fine, the rule about not surprising your lover mentioned in the article 'Planning a Romantic Evening or Weekend Getaway' does not apply here. Just be prepared for the fact that some people may be uncomfortable in many of the situations below, and may reject your advances, especially in unconventional surroundings, so use caution and common sense, and if your partner rejects one idea, try a different one! If you are looking for more erotic sex play, and your current partner ABSOLUTELY REFUSES to try ANYTHING NEW, try having them read this section them self. Sometimes that approach can make a big difference. If that doesn't work.... maybe you need to check out the DATING & ROMANCE section at Buddy & Oscars... or the ADULT DATING section at PassionsUnchained.com!

1) Switch your love making habits: If your love making is usually wild and exotic, and the gymnastics you and your lover perform would qualify you for a gold medal in the Olympics, try an evening of slow, gentle, tender love making. On the flip side, if your love making is usually passionate and tender, get wild and try some of the gymnastics.
2) Try another location: If you normally make love in one or two particular rooms, such as the bedroom or living room, try moving to the kitchen or bathroom. If you have a yard, swimming pool, spa, or deck with enough privacy, move your love making outdoors. If you have a garage, use it for more than parking your car in.
3) Use the furniture to your advantage: Items like a home gym usually have a narrow bench that will allow for deep penetration in the female superior position (woman on top). The arms of some chairs or couches will work too. Look at your furniture from a sexual perspective and see if you can think of ways to take advantage of them for new positions. If your furnishings aren't 'sexually friendly', there are products such as the Liberator Wedge or Combo or the Liberator Ramp & Wedge Combo. These products are specifically designed for having sex, and will allow you and your lover to explore new positions and incredible levels of control and penetration. They also take up less room than a full home gym, and don't cost as much.

4) Leave the house: Go for a drive to a remote location, even if it takes a few hours to get to one. Once there, make love in the car, or better yet, outside of the car. Get out and make love on the hood or trunk of your car. Go into the woods and make love leaning against a tree, or into a field and make love on the grass. Find a construction site that doesn't have a security guard. Go to the beach or river and find a secluded place to make love outside and in new surroundings.
5) Try a not-so-remote location: Some people get sexually aroused at the thought of getting caught by others when having sex. If this is you, or your lover, try finding a location where there may be a risk of someone seeing you, or even catching you in the act. Whether it's in a bathroom stall, an alley, or an elevator, you will have to be creative with this one, and be warned that you may get arrested in some cities, counties, or states if you are caught by the police.
6) Satisfy your lover while driving: Performing oral sex or masturbating your lover while they are driving is more common than you may think. Although you may have to be a bit of a contortionist to deal with the console on some cars, and the person behind the wheel will have their driving skills put to the test, satisfying your lover on the road can result in an extremely intense orgasm. The open road is safer, and more satisfying than trying this in a stop and go situation, and a man may not be able to gain enough access to a woman to satisfy her orally. Again, be warned that if you are caught, many states take a dim view of this practice.
7) Tease your lover in public: An alternative to actually having sex in public is teasing your lover in public. A booth in a restaurant with long table cloths is a great place for your hands to wander to your lover's lap, or for performing oral sex on your partner by 'dropping' a fork and sliding under the table to retrieve it.
Women should wear a short skirt or dress with either no panties, or crotchless panties. Men's pants should be loose enough to allow them to be unzipped without having to move around much, with either no underwear or loose boxers. Another possibility is to take advantage of the many wireless vibrators and vibrating underwear available. Imagine you and your lover being in public, your lover is wearing the vibrating underwear, or the wireless vibrator is in place, and you have the remote control, You are in complete control of when it's off or on, how intense the vibrations are, how long it will last before you decide to turn it off, when and where you will turn it back on, and whether or not you offer your lover any kind of warning when you do turn it back on!
8a) Men: Ambush her at an unexpected time: If your wife or girlfriend is doing the dishes, walk up behind her and start rubbing on her. Rather than moving to another location, bend her over at the sink and make love to her while standing behind her. You can vary this in many ways by either undressing her completely, or only pulling down her pants/shorts/skirt to her ankles. If she doesn't wear a bra around the house, get your hands in the soapy water and rub her breasts either through her top, or by reaching under it. If she does wear a bra, lift it up enough to expose her breasts without removing it. Another alternative is to lay her on the kitchen counter or island if either are large enough. Obviously, timing is important here. Trying this while she's cooking dinner over a hot stove is not an opportune moment.
8b) Women: Ambush him at an unexpected time: If your man does the dishes, then take the same advantage as mentioned above. Since sex is not an option while you're standing behind him, you will have to turn around or switch positions at some point, but not before getting your hands into the soapy water and fondling his genitals for a while. Other good ambush locations are while your lover is bending over the washing machine or clothes dryer, in the bathroom when they are at the sink, in the shower, outside while working in the garden (provided there is enough privacy from the neighbors), or while he or she is making the bed. If your partner does their own oil changes on the car in the garage, this gives you the opportunity for a very pleasurable, very slippery ambush. You can even set this one up by asking him, or her, to change your oil for you. Used motor oil may be dirty, but rubbing it all over your lovers naked body before having sex on the garage floor is well worth the extra time it's going to take washing it off later. Since your lover should already be in work clothes, make sure you don't wear anything you don't care about getting permanently stained, and probably having to throw away. You're the one that knows your surroundings, so take the initiative and be creative. Find the place & time to please your lover when they least expect it.
9) Put on a costume: Does your partner get home from work after you? Why not be standing in the kitchen making dinner in the nude, or better yet, wearing a skimpy French Maid costume (for women), or a G-String or silk boxers (for men)? You can either use the opportunity to put dinner on hold, or as an introduction to surprise your partner with an intimate evening. Most of the lingerie sites listed in the index at the top of this page carries a wide variety of sexy and erotic costumes. Many are included in the products pages here at Intimate Nights, or Click Here to visit the Fantasy Wear & Costumes section at Passions Unchained @ Adam & Eve.

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If you get home after your partner, other alternatives are to find an opportunity when your partner is out of the house for a short time. You can even set up the scenario by asking them to go to the store for a loaf of bread or something.
If you don't live together, invite your lover over. When they arrive, greet them at the door wearing your costume. A nice switch to this is inviting yourself to your lovers home, and have your costume on under a jacket.
If you do live together, and your partner gets home before you, another option is to stop on your way home and change into your costume.
A word of caution here. Although walking in and surprising your lover wearing only a leather G-String may be effective, whether it's at your place or theirs, there's always the risk that someone stopped by for a visit before you arrived. Revealing your 'surprise' and finding your girlfriend's younger sister staring at you might not have the results you had hoped for. Then again... it might.
10) Threesomes: If you and your lover have decided to include a third party in your relationship, having that person waiting with you when your lover arrives will definitely be one of the nicest surprises you have ever given your lover. Although most people seem to think a threesome is only a man's fantasy come true, you would be surprised at the number of women that enjoy a third party as well, whether the third party is a male or female. More women are finding a bi-sexual experience with their lover to be quite pleasing, as a woman not only knows what another woman enjoys, but a second woman can 'coach' the male and teach him what his partner really enjoys. A couple of tips (and possible warnings if this your first time): If you and the third person are going to be waiting for your lover in bed, make sure they don't see you through a window before they walk in. This could create the wrong impression that you are having an affair, especially if the third party is the opposite sex as you are. Surprising your lover with a threesome can backfire if the third party is someone you like, such as a sibling or best friend, but make sure it's someone your lover likes, is physically attracted to as well, and not just someone they tolerate for your sake.
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11) Play out a fantasy: Playing out fantasies is a little more involved than just wearing a costume since it requires both parties to be involved in the role playing, but it has long been a favorite for many couples. Some of the more popular are Cowboy and Indian, Police Officer and Escaped Convict, French Maid and Butler, Employee and Employer, Naughty School Girl and Teacher or Principal, Pilot and Stewardess, Harem Girl and Sheik, Cave Man and Cave Woman, Cheerleader and Football Player, Naughty Nurse and Patient or Doctor, or even Dracula and a helpless maiden. The possibilities are endless. Use your imagination and create fantasies that excite you personally. With the wide variety of costumes available, you can mix and match to create almost anything you can think of.
12) Combine dress up and a threesome: If you're into threesomes, and role playing fantasies, what better way to surprise your lover than have him or her come home to find you and a partner waiting in sexy outfit. As an example, two women could dress in school girl outfits, and when the male comes home, he could be informed that his lady and her friend have been naughty, and need the teacher to keep them after class to punish them.
12a) Combine dress up and B&D: If you and your lover enjoy bondage, a very erotic greeting for your lover is to come home and find you bound, either to the bed, or in another fashion. Although you may have to get some assistance depending on the type of restraints you use, if you're not into threesomes, you can always ask a friend to tie you up and leave just before your partner arrives.
12b) Combine dress up, B&D, and a threesome: One of the most erotic fantasies for some men would be to come home and find their lover and another person dressed in B&D gear, one of the two being the dominant, the other being the bound and helpless slave. Or, both waiting parties could be slaves, and the surprised lover could be offered the role of the dominant individual. It all depends on your personal choices.
13) Give your lover a massage: As simple as this sounds, a slow, sensual, and erotic full body massage is a great for either foreplay, after play, or down time between the action. You can use a variety of different massage oils, including ones that create a warming sensation as they are rubbed into the skin. Start with your lover laying face down, but be sure to include every inch of your lover's body, from the shoulders to the feet. Vary your style from firm pressure with the palms of your hands to long, gentle strokes with your finger tips. As things heat up, concentrate on the buttocks more. From there, you can either move to the genitals from behind, position your lover onto all fours, or roll them onto their back. Both "The Joy Of Erotic Massage" and "Nina's Guide To Erotic Massage" provide excellent information and tips for giving your partner a truly erotic massage.

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14) Put in an adult DVD: Some people will tell you in public the thought of pornography disgusts them, but will get extremely turned on watching a XXX movie in private. Whether the thought of watching a XXX movie in your own home offends you or not, the fact is, a lot of people have a bit of voyeurism in them, and will become sexually aroused watching other people have sex. This is not an exclusively male trait. For those of you that may still be unaware of it, women like sex too, and they get sexually stimulated watching adult movies! If you and your lover have never tried watching a XXX movie together, then give it a shot.
15) Watch the movie while you have sex: This isn't just for a man's satisfaction. Many women have incredible orgasms from the visual stimulation they receive from watching a XXX movie while having sex. While this is not true for all women, you won't know if it works for you until you try it. Unless your television is mounted above the bed, the best position for this is obviously doggy style, with both parties facing the TV.

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16) Watch yourselves having sex: It can be very erotic to watch yourself and your partner making love. Although it can be a little tricky trying to get the right angles to make a movie of your own love making, the results are usually satisfying. Just remember that the angles and positions porn stars use are not for their own satisfaction, but for the camera to capture the scenes, so don't expect a movie of your own love making sessions to mimic those of an adult movie. Even if you have a friend shooting the movie for you, the results will not be the same as a porno flick unless you are prepared to be interrupted by taking direction, and prepared for some less than satisfying positions to allow for better film shots.
17) Masturbation: Sex doesn't always have to mean intercourse. One of the most loving things you can do for your lover is masturbate them. Whether the favor is returned afterwards or not, or you masturbate one another simultaneously, the feelings created, both physical and emotional, are extremely satisfying. Another advantage to masturbating your lover is the various positions available. You can either face your lover, sit next to them, have them kneel down, have them get on their hands and knees, have them on their knees with their chest on the floor, or stand behind them (also known as a reach-around). You can use your hand, use a sex toy, or switch back and forth. One of the most enjoyable aspects is the fact that the person doing the masturbating will get to enjoy the full visual stimulation of their lover's body. Another benefit is the emotional satisfaction you receive brining your lover to an orgasm while concentrating solely on their pleasure. Let's face it, while you're having sex, you may be able to concentrate on your partner most of the time, but as you reach the point of orgasm, your own feelings of pleasure take over, and make it almost impossible to devote all of your attention on your lover.
18) Serve dinner on your body: Covering your naked body with different foods and presenting yourself to you lover as a delicacy will definitely create some positive sexual response. Although common items are various sliced fruits, such as strawberries, kiwis, and bananas, you can get creative by adding some dipping sauce, such as honey, some non dairy whipped topping (remember, real whip cream sours), French onion dip (use it sparingly as the sour cream is a dairy product), even crackers and sliced cheeses or summer sausage. A good 'serving suggestion' would be on a coffee table in the living room with an adult movie on the TV. Not only will you be providing your lover with sexual stimulation, so will the show on TV.
Whatever you choose, you will become a delectable dish for your lover to enjoy. © PassionsUnchained.com

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