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A little about PassionsUnchained.org:
PassionsUnchained.org provides Educational & Entertaining Articles, Information, Services, and Products for Adults that are looking for ways to improve or enhance their sex life by experimenting with new sex positions they may not be familiar with, trying variations of sex positions, trying new sex acts, and by using sex toys to help improve their sexual activities. We present what we have to offer in a very open and straightforward manner, and that includes using language and images for mature individuals that is legally restricted to adult viewing.

Straight talk

Why we use The Language of Sex:
'The Language of Sex' is a phrase we use that refers to words that many people feel are offensive. We think it's unfortunate that so many beautiful sex terms are used in a derogatory way, and it's also unfortunate that so many people cannot differentiate between a word being used as an insult, and the same word being used in a loving manner. Phrases like 'Fuck you', 'Kiss my ass', 'You're a pussy', 'Suck my dick' and others have caused many people to feel uncomfortable using words like fuck, ass, pussy, and dick in a way that isn't derogatory. While there are options such as intercourse, rear end, vagina, and penis, we feel the language of sex shouldn't have such a 'clinical' feel to it. No woman should feel embarrassed to tell her partner "I love the feeling I get when you kiss my pussy", nor should any man feel uncomfortable saying to his lover "It feels wonderful when you suck my cock". Individuals that aren't use to this type of open communication may have other sexual hang ups and need to realize that not only does talking openly with your partner provide emotional stimulation, it can help to break down other sexual inhibitions you may have. So even though we may use many clinical terms throughout this site, we don't hesitate to use many terms that some people may not be comfortable saying, or even reading.

Why we choose to use graphic images rather than illustrations:
While viewing pornography is sexually stimulating, it can also be very educational. After all, what better way to understand the Female Superior (Cowgirl) position that looking at a picture of a couple having sex in that position? Or what better way to understand how to perform oral sex that looking at a picture of a woman sucking a man's cock, or a man eating a woman's pussy?
Just because PassionsUnchained.org provides educational content for adults, we aren't going to try hide anything by claiming the images we use aren't porn. They are. What we do claim is not only don't we feel pornographic images are offensive, we believe the majority of open minded, sexually liberated adults that choose to visit our site enjoy viewing these images.

Are we a porn site?
Yes, to some extent we are a porn site. Even though we provide educational articles and information for adults, we aren't going to hide behind the 'educational' mask and pretend the content on our site isn't pornographic. We enjoy sex, and we aren't opposed to pornography (just check out PassionsUnchained.com for proof of that). While watching porno movies is hot, exciting, and sexually stimulating, we believe porno movies can be educational as well, and we recommend using them to not only help get new ideas for sex, but to help individuals overcome sexual hang ups they might have. While many people are opposed to the word porn, and for some the term 'pornography' has negative connotations, we believe limiting the description of our site to 'socially acceptable' terms like educational, informative or illustrative content is nothing more than whitewashing the truth. Many of the 'clinical' sites show a picture of a man and woman having sex for 'educational illustrative purposes'. If that's how they choose to justify the image and not call their content porn, that's up to them. We use the same kind of images, but we will openly admit that a picture of a man and woman fucking is erotic, and it's porn no matter what kind of educational twist you put on it. That's one reason we require everyone to read our terms and conditions before browsing our site.

So is PassionsUnchained.org a site for you?
That depends on whether you want your information in a clinical presentation, or in a more straightforward adult oriented manner.

If you have a lot of sexual hang ups and you need an image of a man and woman having anal sex to be described something like this:
'To engage in alternative anal intercourse, the male must insert his erect penis into the rectum of the female gradually in order to prevent the female from experiencing an excess of discomfort, resulting in displeasure on the part of the female. If the female experiences discomfort, the female may react negatively and move in an opposite direction from the male, thus resulting in the removal of the male's penis by the female's action, and possible rejection of repeating the action at the present time, and possibly future rejection of allowing the male any attempt to repeat the act. In some extreme circumstances, the female may even react physically against the male's action, possibly injuring the male's testacies as a means of retaliation.' then this site isn't for you (we almost fell asleep just writing that).

But if you're sexually liberated, and you can look at the same image and have anal sex described more like this:
'To butt fuck a woman without causing her pain, the man needs to slide his cock into the woman's ass slowly at first to keep from hurting her. If you try to shove your cock into her ass forcefully, you're going to cause her pain, and not only is she going to pull away, that will probably be the last time she agrees to let you take her up the ass! And if you do hurt her, you might want to cover you balls in case she decides to pay you back for it!' then PassionsUnchained.org is the site for you.

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For Men
Lying down is pretty lazy, so it’s time to try standing up! Pick your partner up by the waist and lift her up. Have her wrap her legs around your waist to provide extra support. Start with her back to the wall and then try it in an open place after building up your muscles.

Target Muscles: biceps, triceps, shoulders and back.

You can get a stronger workout by lifting yourself up and down on your toes to tone your leg muscles as well.

For Women
It’s time to turn the tables on your guy and hop on top! Have him lie down with his legs close together and straddle his torso in a cowgirl position. Rather than leaning forward and supporting yourself on the bed or his chest, keep your hands on your side and your back straight and perpendicular to the bed. Move up and down slowly while keeping your back straight. Start off with a little support from your guy and then work it yourself after strengthening your muscles.

Target Muscles: quads and glutes.

You can get a stronger workout by gyrating and twisting instead of just moving up and down.

If your partner’s a little reluctant to try your sexercise routine for some reason, then there are plenty of alternatives. There are mainstream activities like biking, swimming or clothed jogging, but there’s nothing wrong with a little naked yoga!

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Porn star Ava Rose, 21, talks about her first year as a contract star for Adam & Eve, why Buddhism speaks to her, and her dream of someday owning a coffee shop.
 
Q: How did you get into the adult entertainment industry?
A: I was working at a sporting goods store in Carson City, Nevada and dancing at the Wild Orchid strip club. A man approached me in the club and asked if I would do a photo shoot. My sister and I went. They asked us to masturbate on camera. I thought it was gross. I don’t masturbate in front of a camera with my legs open. But it led to a screen test, a boy-girl scene, two weeks later. The first short film came next. I got $350, but it was easy so I was OK with it. My sister and I moved to California, acquired our stage names and worked our way up from Gonzo films, where you just show up on set, have sex and go, to feature films. I met a director who introduced me to people at Adam & Eve. I did catalogue pictures first, then signed to do films. Lady Scarface was my first movie followed by It's All About Ava. I did one film with my sister Mia, Double Trouble.

Being a contract star is great. I make $6,000 a film, or a month. I can’t shoot porno for anyone else during that time. I can do soft core movies (simulated sex for Cinemax or HBO) and photo shoots. Mia continues to work in the industry, but hasn’t signed with anyone.

Q: What you do for a living is hard to imagine for most people because having sex is usually a very personal, private thing. How do you separate the sex you have at work and the sex you have at home?
A: Sex at work is definitely different. It’s opening up for the camera and getting into creepy positions. At home, I like to just lie there and enjoy it. I like to be inventive and crazy sometimes, but mostly I like to be lazy in bed.

Q: How can you feign intimacy with an actor you’ve only just met?
A: We all know it’s our job, so for the most part it’s really easy. It’s kind of like screwing a new guy in your personal life. It’s exciting.

Q: What’s a typical day like?
A: When I’m shooting, I get a script about a week in advance. I read over it then, but I really get my lines down by going over it several times just before the scene is shot. I show up on set to get into hair and makeup as early as 8 a.m., then work until around 10 p.m. There is a lot of waiting. Dialogue takes time. Getting all the shots takes time. Moving from one set to the next takes. There is a lot of down time. I spend most of the day in my pajamas, getting my make up touched up. It takes two to three days to shoot a feature film, and I do one a month, so I have a lot of time off.

Q: What do you do in your spare time?
A: I’m a real homebody. I’ve been recognized on the street once. I’m in Starbucks several times a day. I have a Maltese named Charlie, so I go to the dog park. I watch movies, eat canned squid. (I’m not much of a cook, and it’s delicious.)

Q: Appearances are very important in your line of work. Do you eat less than I do? Work out more? Go tanning?
A: I do go tanning, but I don’t wear makeup outside of work. I didn’t watch what I was eating until I got my contract, and I was too thin. I’ve gained 35 pounds. I’m 5’6” and I weigh 135. Fans seem to like me more now that I’ve put on a few more curves. I am starting to work with a personal trainer to firm up.

Q: Who are you close to? Parents? Sister? Boyfriend?
A: I’m very close to my sister, my parents and my boyfriend Devan. But this is the first time I’ve lived alone, and I’m enjoying it.

Q: What do they think about your career?
A: Devan (Sapphire) is a film director for Club Jenna, Jenna Jameson’s company. He hired me to do my very first feature, Taboo 22, a month before I got my contract with Adam & Eve. We have an open relationship. If we end up sleeping with other people we use condoms and we tell each other, but it rarely happens. Our relationship is not so much about sex; it’s more about being with someone you just like to be with.
My parents are happy for my sister and me. They’re not exactly proud of what we do, but they support us no matter what. It’s the thing I love best about my parents. Their only career advice was to try to find a way to be happy with your life, with your work.

Q: What did you want to grow up to be when you were a little girl? Were you influenced by any particular religion?
A: I wanted to be a veterinarian, then I wanted to be a doctor. We lived in Alaska, then when I was 11 we moved to Nevada. I would say I’m spiritual, but not religious. My parents had religion pushed on them, so they didn’t do that to us. I was just raised to do the right thing. I believe Buddhism is a great religion. It’s about being nice, treating other people the way you want to be treated, and not pushing your religion on others.

Q: I think we all have varying degrees of fear that others will judge us harshly – for whatever reason. When you first meet other people, is it awkward to them what you do for a living?
A: I lie. When I go to a club and people ask what I do, I tell them I’m a secretary. If I tell them what I really do, they have questions, questions and more questions. So, if I just want to have a short and sweet conversation, it’s best to say I’m a secretary. Then, by the time I tell them the truth, I know they’re going to be cool.

Q: What are people’s expectations of you after they learn that you are a porn star?
A: Men are intimidated when they find out what I do for a living. They think I have sex with a lot of different men. I really don’t. I have only two scenes a month, and it’s with the same people, usually Tommy Gunn and Evan Stone. We get tested for STDs every three weeks, and I’ve never had one. Civilians don’t get tested nearly as often.
Women think that women in this business have to be skanky and dirty and suck everybody off and be divas. You don’t have to be that way. Contract stars are attractive, willing to put themselves out there on camera, able to handle interviews and conversations. They’re sexual, not slutty.

Q: Is there anything you won’t do on camera?
A: I don’t do DP, double penetration. That’s not very cool. I don’t do anything degrading like really, really rough sex. In my personal life that kind of sex is OK because it’s with someone I trust, someone I care about. At any rate, it’s not an issue at Adam & Eve because they don’t do those kinds of films. A lot of what we do is couples based. I like thinking I may have helped couples improve their sex lives, but I think what they get from watching my movies, they really already have. You have to be open and content with each other to watch porno together.

Q: Do you ever think about getting married, having children?
A: I don’t know about getting married. I don’t think you need papers to say you’re in love with someone. It just isn’t necessary. I’d like to have kids and be with someone someday, just not now. It’s a different stage in life.

Q: If you have a daughter and she wants to follow in your footsteps, what will you tell her?
A: Not everybody is strong enough to handle this business. You’ve got to be mentally tough. People write in online forums that you look fat or like you’re on crack. Some of the girls read those things and it really gets them down. I would hope my daughter wouldn’t want to be in the business. I feel bad for my parents. Only two daughters. Both in porno. Maybe I’ll have a boy.

Q: At what age do you expect to be too old to continue in your career? What are your plans?
A: Being under contract means 12 movies a year. It gives me a little longevity. I’m in higher demand because people don’t see as much of me, but there are newer, younger girls every day. I don’t want to be forced to compromise my standards, to return to Gonzo films where I would have to do anal sex, DP, as many scenes as I can get. For the lifestyle that I eventually want to live, I think I should pack up my things when I’m 26, move on and open my coffee shop. Maybe in Bodega Bay. Definitely up on the north coast. There’s nothing better than curling up with a cup of coffee and a book on a rainy day. It’s good for the soul.

Q: What’s coming up for you this year in terms of films, magazine spreads, vacations?
A: Scouting locations for my coffee shop. I’d like to work more with director Ethan Kane. I’d like to be a feature dancer on the club circuit, making $3,000 an appearance plus tips. I need to start putting some money away for that coffee shop.

Eden This Year’s XXX Tropical Blockbuster! Filmed on location in beautiful Hawaii! Includes Special Guest Star – Courtney Cummz! 2-Disc Collector's Set Loaded with 10 Fantastic Scenes & Hours of Extras! "Adam & Eve has created the most ambitious movie in its history, capturing beautiful women in lavish locations with top-notch production values... Fans of high-end adult entertainment will not want to miss Adam & Eve's sizzling trip to a tropical paradise." -Dan Miller, Adult Video News reviewer      "Bursting with exotic splendor and hardcore heat, Eden is a must see!" -Emma Edwards, Club Magazine reviewer     Leave your worries (and inhibitions) behind for this exotic island filled with passionate sex and forbidden fantasies! Filmed in beautiful Hawaii and loaded with breath-taking beaches and scenery, Eden’s packed with high-energy action and genuine passion you won’t find in other adult movies. 218 minutes, plus 95 minutes of DVD bonus material.     Ava Rose and Bree Olson jump in the pool for a little skinny dipping, some playful wrestling, and a lot of tongue-tickling box munching! After some intense and fast-paced doggy, Ava strokes Evan Stone’s balls until he pops and then licks the last drop off his cock!     See our collection of toys based on the movie Eden!

Carmen & Ava Playtime with Carmen & Ava! From schoolgirl foursome to a hot tub hook-up, Carmen and her galpals can't wait for you to join in the fun! Carmen and Ava Rose lose their little black dresses in front of a mirror and play with themselves before Ava puts on a strap-on and gives it to Carmen doggy style!

I Love Ava & Mia Ava & Mia Rose: Sensational Sisters! Ava likes it hard, Mia likes to take charge, and both these sisters sizzle! Adam & Eve contract star Ava gets down on the floor with Mr. Pete and squirts all over! Manuel slathers her tits with oil before she swallows every inch of his supercock. Mia’s fabulous ass looks sensational when she rocks on a giant cock, then goes bottoms up for a standing 69. 281 minutes plus 284 minutes of extras.

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Sex Can Keep You Looking Young!
Would you rather have plastic surgery or inject poison into your face to look 10 years younger? Or would you rather try something a little more pleasurable?

A 10-year study suggests that having sex three times a week can keep you looking up to 10 years younger than the “average adult,” reports Dr. David Weeks, a consultant neuropsychologist at the Royal Edinburgh Hospital. "Pleasure derived from sex is a crucial factor in preserving youth. It makes us happy and produces chemicals telling us so.”

According to his findings, about 25 percent of a person’s youthful appearance comes from genetics, but the other 75 percent is behavioral with sexual activity coming in right behind physical and mental exercise.

So in addition to all of the other benefits sex offers, including reducing stress and burning calories, sex can also help you forget all the chemical injections the TV commercials are constantly trying to talk you into getting. A side benefit is that rather than having expensive plastic surgery or injections, you can use the money you save to buy a new car, a new house, or better yet, a nice collection of Adult Sex Toys and Adult DVDs and Videos to help keep your weekly sex fest exciting!

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Top 10 Other Things to do with Your Toys
Written by Nikki Daly

10. Smoothie mixer. A waterproof, rotating rabbit vibrators can whip things up in the kitchen as well as the bedroom. Then watch your partner lick that mixer clean.

9. Wedding ring. Was it so good that you want her to be yours forever? Slip a Magic Super Stretch Cock Ring on her finger.

8. Objet d'art. Slap an 11-inch chocolate brown Sean Michael Super Cock with a suction cup base down on a marble pedestal in your foyer. Talk about a conversation piece! The XXX video veteran shared his gift with the world. So should you.

7. Champagne saver. No more carving up the cork to stopper a half-full bottle. Keep the bubbles in your bubbly with a small, bulbous jelly rubber butt plug. Tap for a tight fit. Easy in. Easy out.

6. WD 40. Anal lubes are perfect for greasing back doors – and back door hinges. One swipe, no squeak.

5. Night lights. Get a Glow-in-the-Dark Clone-a-Willy Kit and make a bedside lamp that will keep your romance glowing all night.

4. Gasket. If leaky faucets are giving you a fit, slip on small, waterproof cock rings. No more drippy plumbing – in or out of bed.

3. Cold beverage coozie. Take those six-inch male masturbators, put a little ice in the bottom and slip a beer past the labia and into the sleeve. ‘Nuff said.

2. Neck massager. No, really, I’ve heard vibrators are actually good for muscle aches.

1. Self defense. In the event that a man breaks into your house, grab the King Dong Dildo and brandish it at the intruder. Nothing, and I mean nothing, scares a man more than the sight of giant genitalia that doesn’t belong to him.

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Masturbating for better health

Not that you really need an excuse to get primed and pumped for some one-armed pull-ups, but the health benefits are a nice added extra!

Whether you’re more concerned with prostate maintenance or with keeping your kitty purring, we can all agree that masturbation is a rewarding pursuit. After all, masturbation is highly effective at relieving headaches, easing stress and even getting a good night’s sleep.

Of course, it’s important to employ variety with masturbation. Give your left hand a chance to wind up the old jack-in-the-box once in a while. If you’re feeling adventurous, give your fingers the night off and give your cock a new sensation with some Realistic Male Masturbators, or keep your pussy purring with a Rabbit Vibrator, a  G Spot Vibrator, or a Clit Vibrator. For a little self pleasure in the tub, there are Waterproof Vibrators, and for the anal aficionados, an Anal Sex Toy like a butt plug or a Vibrating Butt Plug is sure to make your self induced orgasm even more intense!

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A recent study analyzing the 237 reasons men and women have sex found that the two aren’t that different after all. Both reported that their top reason for sex was: I was attracted to the person. Although men and women ranked other reasons a little differently, both still had 20 of the top 25 reasons in common, including: It’s fun (#8 for women, #4 for men) and I was horny (#7 for both).

Other interesting results show that more women prize intelligence (#39) over humor (#44), but men prefer beautiful eyes (#45) to both intelligence (#48) and humor (didn’t make men’s Top 50).

It’s not much of a surprise but the biggest differences between men and women involve a lot of physical cues. For instance, men listed revealing clothes at a far higher level than women as well as a desirable body or an attractive face.

Men also tended to favor sex for reputation reasons more than women, citing "I wanted to have more sex than my friends", "I needed another notch on my belt", "I wanted to brag to my friends about my conquests", and "someone dared me" as popular reasons.

Women tended to prioritize sex as a way of showing their affection or love for a person. And also they preferred romance and becoming closer to their partner.

But some of the most amusing reasons for sex are also the least common for both men and women.
I wanted to stop my partner’s nagging.
I wanted to get out of doing something.
I wanted to get rid of a headache.
I was slumming.
I wanted to even the score with a cheating partner.

And last but not least…

I wanted to change the topic of conversation

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Here are some scientific tips to 'tapping' in to your female partner's sex drive.
Since every person is different, there is no single how-to set of tips that will keep all women sexually aroused forever, but taking advantage of a little scientific research can't hurt.

Sex Talk:
Men aren't the only ones that are horny all the time. Scientific research supports the idea that women are indeed just as sexually inclined as men when given the chance. The key to getting a woman to open up and get her to express her sexual desires is to be pro-active and get her to talk about it. While it's true that some men tend to 'tune out' during a conversation on occasion, getting a woman to talk about her sexual desires and fantasies is a topic sure to keep any man's attention.
When asked what they want sexually, women are not shy to say "Sucks, not licks;" "A man who worships the ground that I walk on!" and "good clitoral stimulation."
When you do get her to open up and express her sexual interests, both verbally and in physically, you may be surprised how far she may be willing to go. Women are willing to push the sex envelope if they feel comfortable. This may have something to do with how dopamine affects the brain during and in anticipation of sex activity. A recent study out of the University of Michigan found that whereas male rats get a spike in dopamine levels when they smell a female, see her, or have sex. Females get a dopamine spike when they "control" sex by allowing the male near, than fleeing and returning a few times, eventually accepting the male's advances.
So the key here is to give her a little room to build up the anticipation of having sex. The more she anticipates sexual activity, the more dopamine-induced pleasure she will feel, so let her initiate sex when it feels right to her.

Understanding Her Menstrual, and Sexual Cycle:
'Men only think about sex once a day... when they're awake. The rest of the time they dream about it.' While this is an obvious exaggeration, we seem to hear a lot about how much men think about sex, but we never hear about the quantity, or quality of women’s daily sexual thoughts. Since sexual dysfunction in healthy pre-menopausal women is almost non existent, why would anyone think women have issues getting aroused? While being swept off her feet (literally) will make almost any woman's panties wet, and a loving relationship is a big turn on for most women, female sexual arousal isn't always based on romance.
If a woman's cravings for sex during some times of the month, and the lack of interest during others gets you down, don’t get frustrated. Recent studies on female fertility indicate that women do, in fact, have arousal cycles that hormonally affect their libido. Since estrogen spikes right before ovulation, many women feel particularly sexy in the middle of their menstrual cycle, while others report getting wet frequently and feeling aroused right before they get their periods.
This is also due to a slight spike of estrogen at that time, which explains some of the ups and downs of women’s mysterious libidos.

Visual Stimulation:
While it still holds true that men are more sexually aroused by visual stimulation than women, A recent study from the University of Maryland found that because the genes for color vision are on the X chromosome, women have more color perception genes and are actually capable of seeing more colors than men. So if you don’t put much thought into dressing “colorfully,” both in the outer wear department and the underwear department, you can become visually boring to a woman.
New and different visual stimulation is an important part of arousing a woman sexually, so try making some changes in the way you dress once in a while. According to Neil Strauss's modern day Pick Up Artist Manual, women respond to "peacocking," so go for a look that will attract her attention.
While it's important to dazzle her in the outer wear department, it's just as important (and eventually more important) in the underwear department. After all, attracting a woman's attention while you're dressed is only half the battle. Regardless of whether you're single looking for a partner for sex, or you're married or in a long term relationship, when it's time to get down to business and start taking the clothes off, an athletic supporter or a pair of white cotton briefs with holes in them isn't a turn on for a woman. In fact, it can turn a woman off to the point she may put her clothes back on and turn the TV on instead! Men need to realize that they aren't the only ones that get turned on by looking at member of the opposite sex wearing sexy underwear. Women get just as turned on when a man's wearing something more erotic than the the same old 'silk boxers' you'll find at the local Wal-Mart. There are a lot of sexy options for men in this area, but unless you have adult sex store in your area that carries a good variety of quality male underwear, you'll probably have to shop online to find something more exciting. This is usually easier anyway, and to be honest, less embarrassing for some men when they are buying Men's Erotic Underwear, especially some older men when the girl at the cash register is young and naive and tends to giggle, or worse yet, when she has her friend with her and they both start to snicker.

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